It snowed here in Maine for the first time on Friday. My children were overjoyed. Snowballs were made, snow angles created and cross country skis strapped on. All with only 3 inches of the white stuff.
Today was a bright, beautiful, sun filled day. A snow melter of a day. A mud maker of a day.
My son has an affinity for mud. As do must boys of his age. At pick up this afternoon he was not waiting on the bench for me. I had to fetch him from the office. He was busted for snowball hurling and rock throwing. The glum child that I sprang from the school office was liberally covered in thick brown mud. He was also unhappy. Could have been because I tried to lead him to the car by his right earlobe? Just for a few steps. Just to get my point across.
I briefly considered asking him to run next to the car rather then having him sit IN my car. Then I rejected the ski rack option. Stripping him butt naked in the parking lot was briefly considered as well. In the end I let him enter the car. His boots were covered, his jeans were covered. He was covered in mud. At this point I was having a hard time keeping on my stern mother face. He looked so forlorn that it was hard not to smile.
He and I had a little chat on the way home. He took responsibility for his actions after a valiant attempt to talk his way out of the situation. He picked up an extra chore for disobeying a teacher and breaking the school rules. (Cleaning the dining room table. No biggie.) He also must write the teacher a note of apology. That one hurt. Writing is a challenge for him. Hopefully he will remember it the next time he loses control. Think so? Me neither.
Tuesday, December 12, 2006
Mud, Glorius Mud!
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7 comments:
It's so hard to behave when you are a high-spirited boy.
Also, i think you need to start carrying a camera with you at all times.
Yes, I think you should be a getting a digital camera in your stocking this year, we need all your adventures documented in photo form for us to enjoy! :)
And, wouldn't it be nice if kids could remember the consquences before they behave like wild monkeys? I know it'll never happen, but I have my dreams....
dont mind my pouting about no picture of this. nope, ignore my tears. im not even a little upset about it
*sob* *crushed* *ded*
Trust me when I say that getting a picture of mud boy was the farthest thing from my mind. But next time, and there will be a next time, I will do my best.
Girlie had an apology writing school incident this week too. Love these kids.
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Mud in the car? I hope you got a good car wash out of the little rascal. His teacher would probably feel sorry for him if he wrote about that!
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